So I met this girl at work. A bunch of my friends told me that she has a crush on me and she told me herself two weeks ago. I’m not gonna lie I’ve had a crush on her too. She asked me out and of course I said yes so when the day comes for us to go on our date she bails. Needless to say I was disappointed and thought “well I guess that’s the end of that“. So I get back to work on Monday and she’s acting completely normal towards me so I was thinking maybe something did really come up that she couldn’t get out of. So halfway through the week she asked me out again for dinner this Saturday night. I agreed and then an hour before we are supposed to meet for dinner something else comes up and she bails yet again. She’s trying to text me now like everything is completely normal. I told her that I was disappointed That she bailed out on the date and she apologized saying that her cousin had to go to the hospital… I’m not really sure if I believe that. I do like this girl but how can I figure out what’s really going on? She tells me that she’s gay and she’s had other relationships before So I don’t know what the problem is. Can anyone offer any advice?