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Discussion in 'Does She Like Me?' started by dixson, Dec 15, 2014.

  1. Bluenote

    Bluenote Well-Known Member

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    Nothing to add, just had to give you props for the quote.
     
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  2. dixson

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  3. Bluenote

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    If she has concerns about how this could cross over into you gals' professional life - the worst thing to do is to push further physically. That will just add to the intensity and lack of boundaries of the situation.

    There's a good chance she'll either - freak out and shut down. Or, sleep with you and then freak out and shut down.

    If you sense that she is hesitant a)ask yourself why (maybe office romance isn't a stellar idea, particularly if she's not out) b)Just talk to her and set some boundaries c) chill out and - just give things time to develop. Maybe she'll fell better when she's had more than a handful of dates with you.

    I'm not sold that an office romance is a good idea, but you seem happy to blow by that concern.
     
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    Seems like it's going alright so far so as bluenote mentioned probably best to give things time to develop, no need to try and speed things up.
     
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