Which is sexier/hotter... an older mom with young kids in tow, or an older woman with nipple rings? What I am trying to find out is whether or not nipple rings or young kids are a deal breaker, particularly for those middle aged or older? My ex girlfriend and I broke up because I wanted to adopt one or more children, and she did not want kids, particularly at our stage of life. She also didn't want to see nipple rings (, very personal symbolism for me, honoring a loss,not just a hey, I think it's cool). Well I did adopt a child on my own, and have been matched with two more. Unfortunately, that match is in jeopardy.I am trying to figure out a way to salvage this match before time runs out, while being bombarded by well meaning folks on all ends of the spectrum saying kids will kill all future relationships. Are they right? Will nipple rings and young kids significantly impact my chances of getting another girlfriend? Also, does anyone have experience transferring their home study license across state lines? Feedback appreciated!