Make a Move?

Discussion in 'Advice on Meeting Women' started by Kourtney, May 24, 2017.

  1. Kourtney

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    So here's the deal recently a co-worker of mine..who's a lebsian as become interested me...Now at first I didn't notice her because she was being subtle with her interest...But in recent months she become more aggressive...For instance,every time she comes close she has to touch on my arm or slightly nudge on my hair...Im a straight women but always been curious bout females.. I know talking to a coworker is tricky business...But she work in different area than myself ...The flirting has gotten old ...She private with here flirting only when it's me and here around..


    How should I approach her? Sn: she has a higher up position at my job...im not trying advance there
     
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  2. mariannek2u

    mariannek2u Well-Known Member

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    Well....maybe ask her for a drink after work? Or do you have some other places in common that you both visit?
    But i guess it al depends if you want to flirt back ;)
     
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  3. Kourtney

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    I gotta along with her flirting but she's a hard person to read...So I dont know what angle to take u know...plus she's a manager at job...
     
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    Do you have anything in common? Or is there an opportunity where you are able to talk to her outside of work?
     
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  5. Kourtney

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    Honestly I'm not sure...She works Allll the time...She likes sports only thing I can think of
     
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  6. mariannek2u

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    Or do what she does...when you 2 are alone touch her arm or something. And see how she reacts
     
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  7. Kourtney

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    Ok I'll see how that goes...I've never dated a girl before this is new for me u know
     
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  8. Kourtney

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    She'll probably just laugh
     
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    I would not go touching some random manager from work. Sounds like a recipe for total disaster.
     
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  10. Kourtney

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    Crazy thing I had a dream about her last night...we were making out!?
     
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