Large labia/Labiaplasty? Lesbian opinions?

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  1. faceface

    faceface Member

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    I was wondering what opinions in the lesbian community were on having larger labia minora? I have ones that protrude past my labia majora and am pretty insecure about it. Hard not to be when you read that some people refer to them as "beef curtains," etc. There isn't a lot of information out there on what a "normal" vagina is, but I'm nervous to engage in an intimate act if it is going to freak someone out. I understand that there is a rise in cosmetic labiaplasty, and that this is largely born out of a lack of awareness as to variations in vaginas, the homogenization of expectations by the porn industry, etc.

    But answer honestly: would larger lips turn you off?

    (Also if this considered inappropriate, Moderator, please just remove. I am not trolling, just looking for some honest feedback. Thank you.)
     
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    greylin Well-Known Member

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    Re: Large labia/Labiaplasty? Lesbian opinions...

    I have never thought of it before. But I really don't think so as it being a turn off. A woman is beautiful because she is beautiful to me and I to her. It is an intimate fondness.

    There are things I don't like about my body but I hate needles, knives and the awful recovery time a lot more. If you do anything, I suggest that you do it only for yourself and people who don't like you just because of that can go fly a kite. Make sure you have researched the plastic surgeons well before choosing one.
     
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    Re: Large labia/Labiaplasty? Lesbian opinions...

    Labia come in all different size variations. There is nothing wrong with having large labia! Anyone who is turned off because you do not match an ideal of perfection that some may expect is not worth your time. I had a discussion about this a week ago with a friend of mine. I told her to look at tumblr and search large labia, or hell just labia. I did this not to be pervy but because with a quick scroll one can see just how varied labia are and how there is no shame in having large labia, small labia, asymmetrical labia etc. In fact, you will find many people who are turned on by it. Instead of shame, it is something you can embrace. After all, confidence is huge turn on, it changes how people perceive you.
     
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    Re: Large labia/Labiaplasty? Lesbian opinions...

    If I was contemplating whether or not I would have sex with you, knowing that you had cosmetic surgery on your vagina would definitely put you in the 'no I definitely wouldn't" category. Women are not men. Women do not have nearly as many unrealistic expectations of their partners' bodies as men do...women do not watch as much porn and if they do they do not watch the same kind of porn as men. Porn is the only reason society has any vaginal standards whatsoever.
     
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    Re: Large labia/Labiaplasty? Lesbian opinions...

    Faceface - I would sleep with you if I found you generally attractive and we had a connection. I've never looked at a hot woman and thought: "Hmmm I'd totally have sex with her, but only after I measure her labia and make sure it's short enough." NO. I think: "Damn I'd totally have sex with her and I wonder what she tastes like." haha I digress. But, you get my point?

    In general - I'm a bit more particular about pubic hair though, because it can make oral a bit inconvenient if not well maintained. I've never ever thought about labia size and I don't think most lesbians (or men even) think much about it.
     
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    Re: Large labia/Labiaplasty? Lesbian opinions...

    Words cannot begin to explain how turned on I am by a large labia. So no, I'd definitely not be turned off and I'd probably want to sleep with you :mrgreen:

    More to play with ;)

    Everyone has different preferences so what other people don't like some people love.

    Also, I think people think they "need" to only like small labias because that's what society says they should like. Not me anyway and I'm pretty vocal about it :lol:
     
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