So my ex and I just broke up on Thursday. We were together 6 years. While she was sleeping next to me, I discovered she was cheating by going through her texts. She cheated with a male friend of hers who lives in another state. She recently went to visit him, and had planned on going back this weekend. My gut is never wrong and several things didn't add up so I decided to be "nosy nellie". She admitted to screwing up and moved out. I'm very upset and devastated not only for the betrayal, but also because she could so easily do that knowing my mother died 9 months ago and I'm still grieving her loss. I just can't fathom hurting someone, and having a complete disregard for their heart and feelings. It's unimaginable. I'll survive- I've survived worse. It just breaks my heart that I've lost my person and best friend to her own selfishness and stupidity.