My roommate and I have had an attraction to each other for about 8 months now. It has grown and grown, however, there are things that have made me hesitate when it comes to pursuing her. She's a little loose for me. So, without talking about this, we have decided to go our separate ways in relationships. It's just a mutual understanding. Cool. So, since she has been seeing this new girl, she continually asks me to go to events that they will happen to be at. This is the problem.. my roommate and I still have that attraction to each other. She parades around the house in these tight shorts and shirts with her breast poking out...but I have self restraint. I mean I still look, but I don't touch. So,this is the thing... why is she asking me to go to clubs/parties where the two of them will be? I really don't care for the other girl either. Why would I put myself in that situation right? Also, my roommate, well she is still a friend of mine so sometimes I feel obligated to go to one of her functions or events. When I talk about going out with my company, I don't invite her. Why would I?? And she has times when she seems upset that I am going out with someone and she hasn't met her yet..lmao. Anyway would it be wrong for me to pass on this event? What do you ladies think?