So, I really like this girl who works part time in a different department at work. We run into each other occasionally and always chat. We've also become friends on Facebook. I'd love to ask her out, but here are a few issues: 1. I don't know how she identifies. I know she got out of a "thing" with a boy a few months ago, but I don't want to assume that means straight. I also identify as agender, so if she's not straight, I don't know if she date an NB person. 2. I'm not very confident. Never have been, though I'm getting there. I don't know how to just go for it and ask her out. I know the worst she can do is say no, but I'm nervous. 3. I've been talking to my friend/coworker about this. She's bisexual and much more confident than I am. While she's encouraging me to go for it, I've also overheard her attempting to flirt with the girl, too. I'm kind of angry with my friend right now. So, like, what do I do?