Or at least lessen the guilt. GF just admitted she's feeling a lot of guilt lately because she's still halfway in the closet. We've talked about this before and like before, I assured her this is not a concern right now. The other thing is, she mentioned this just recently when she's away. When we're together, things are almost perfect. And when I try to talk about it, she just tells me she's fine, she was just missing me and blamed it on holiday blues (she said because we will not be spending Christmas together. Her parents are hosting this year and to lessen the pressure on her, I decided to go visit my Dad.) And that's one thing about her, she is very good at avoiding conversations like this when it makes her uncomfortable. And I don't want to push her because that will only add to her stress. I can't believe I'm back here so soon with a question but I sometimes don't know what else to say or do to make it better for her. She tries not to show it but I notice. Even if she doesn't say, I can feel it's taking a toll on her.