So, it's been almost 10 years since we've been done with high school. I told her I liked her when I was 18? We were both the same age. We used to go clubbing and things would get heated. So I assumed maybe she was bi at the very least. She denied it! And said she was 'straight.' Years went by. We kept in touch. We graduated university. Now we're both in the same city. We met for dinner in our hometown back in spring (I asked her out to catch up--she was seeing an on-again-off again guy). Last month, I messaged her to see how she's settling in her new city (where I've been living for a few years now). A few days ago, I got a message from her asking if I'm interested in going out to dinner or drinks with her?! In my book, if someone told me they 'liked me' and if I wasn't on the same team as them--I'd stay away! Mostly because I wouldn't want to lead someone on. I've never been in a situation where a straight girl asks me out to dinner or drinks. Yes, I'm gay. What do the lesbians in the house think?! I feel like she's being friendly but i really feel like there's tension between us. Or maybe that's the gay girl inside me talking. Objective views are welcome.