I'm a straight up pansy. Seriously. And because of such, I'm missing out on going to places/meeting the ladies I'm interested in. I mean, not that going to bars would be my ideal places of meeting folks, but at least I'll be out there...you know, meeting folks haha I've tried the online thing but it always ends up with folks not being who they say they are which is always such a let down... Well...at least I could admit that I'm pretty much a pansy... So I guess my advice would be the simple nubile, where do I even start? I'm not new to this whole dating scene, just very out of touch with it. Been so focused on work and life in general that I forget that I need that bit of happy in my life, you know, the part that includes cuddles and random kisses. Halp?