Hi all. I was in a 7 and a half year relationship until this year and so have finally got myself out there. I met literally the most amazing woman online and after a week of constant talking, we finally met up for lunch. I did no flirting whatsoever (think I've forgotten how to) and apart from the general chat flowing, it did feel uncomfortable. I don't know whether she just didn't fancy me or whether I was giving the wrong signals. Basically, I was pretty damn useless! Her message after was that she felt there was 'no chemistry at all' and when suggesting maybe another date in better circumstances, she just said she's going with her gut instinct. I literally cannot stop thinking about her. She's my actual perfect woman in every single sense and after all of our talking, i honestly think we would be perfect togther. I'm annoyed at myself for not being a better date and ruining my chance. Should I just leave it and move on? Should I leave it for a while? Should I ask if she found me attractive or if she wasn't interested from the start? Any thoughts?