OK, I'm actually kind of a tomboy, but stick with me here... I've heard a lot of gay women say 'I have a hard time meeting women / getting dates, because I'm femme and everyone assumes I am straight.' The counter, of course, is to 'signal' to people that you are gay. Like putting an HRC sticker on your car. Or wearing a gay themed t-shirt. I have to admit, I am woefully out of tune with current gay fashion. I still have rainbow colored rings from the 90s, but I don't think that is a good suggestion, lol. So, fashionable ladies out there - what can a femme wear to let others know she is gay? What other ways can a femme let others know she is gay?