So, I’ve broken up with my ex just weeks before her birthday. It was quite a bad break up. She asked me whether I can spend her birthday with her and after that, she will leave me alone. I didn’t want to meet her on her birthday because I wasn’t ready to meet her yet. Also, I don’t want her to have any expectations whatsoever in case I decided to spend her birthday with her. Now, she’s pretty upset telling me that I’ve hurt her so much. I don’t want to feel bad but I don’t want to go soft either and let her have her way. It was a pretty toxic relationship. Now I don’t know what to do and guilt is eating me inside. What should I do?