Hello AE world, Hope everyone is well. Enough with the formalities we all have lives I get it. Okay so here is the thing. I like women more than I like men, I've known that for a while those intense friendships and bff relationships yeah, those should have been an awakening but me being me I ignored them all until a couple years ago keep I mind I have had no relationship with either sex because I run for the hills or more like the mountains. Not to mention I come from a Mexican catholic familia so bringing a women home was not realistic until now. Fast forward to present I met this girl, she is pretty awesome she cooks, and mixes drinks and loves Netflix marathons and is super smart we met in stats class. I developed a crush on her go figures, She is into BDSM and is in an open relationship. Here is how it all began, I spend the night at her place because we are heading to a concert, nothing sexual just a sleepover. She sometime during the sleep over she states is looking for a GF. I talk to her but show no interest because I'm not 100% sure about being in an open relationship. Another time she totally baked for my birthday because I told her how much I loved this cake and she just baked it and brought it to class. On another occasion we were out with friends and she says if I wanted to ditch the activity for some boob play. So at first I thought it was jut the way girls in general are flirty with one another. Then she would say things like I'll be your Alex (OITNB is my obsession) I had not come out to her due to my being scared because I actually can see myself with this girl. Anyways I finally asked her if she liked me because I like her too. Plus I was tired of trying to guess. She replied saying she didn't think I was into girls so she never thought of me that way (Yikes!) but that if I wanted to we could give it a try. So my question is did I totally put her on the spot hence she gave me the choice? Was I totally misreading the signals (which I have done in the past with the opposite sex that is)?