Hi guys, I used to have a thread called "What is a serious relationship? My gf says I'm not ready for one" but due to the new design in the site it got deleted... I might do it again but today I come to you because of a new tiny issue that's keeping my head busy. I have a girlfriend, P, and we've been dating almost for a year and a half, actually our 18 monthanniversary is this saturday, we are both 19. She introduced me to her relatives last year, a long time ago when we had been dating for less than 3 months. She came out to her mom in Feb last year but didn't tell her we were dating, she saw us kissing and found out, it was a mess but she is ok with it now; she introduced me to her family but just told a couple of them she is dating me. A few weeks ago she went to visit her family in another country and she told her cousin's wife we were together and she reacted really well. So now almost everyone knows and her family is quite small, it's formed of 11 relatives or so. I even agreed to travel and save for the plane ticket to mer her family next year. I came out to my parents 4 years ago and before we started dating I told my mom I liked P and when we began dating I told her and my dad figured it out, I confirmed it when I officially asked her to be my gf. I introduced her to some friends in person and some through chat. She met my mom's family in March last year in a funeral but I introduced her as my best friend,in July last year she got mad at me because I hadn't come out to my grandma because she said it was tougher for her because she had dated guys before and because she is princess girly while I'm not so no one had expectations on me so she didn't understand why I hadn't come out to her, truth is it terrified me because my grandma is the most important person in my life; however due to how mad she got I went over to my grandma's and told her. I haven't formally introduced her to my families because I haven't come out to them and that is royally pissing her off because she thinks I am ashamed of her and I'm not; when we have had opportunities to introduce her she couldn't go or didn't feel comfortable because we were fighting. So now, I told her I want to take her to meet my family, and she said it was ok, that she was nervous becase she thought they would hate her and convince me to dump her. Yesterday I went out with my cousins and I told one fo them and it turns out EVERYONE in my dad's family already knows, even the ones who I though were going to reject me took it quite well and think we look really cute together and that they want to meet her so I told her I would take my gf and then I sent P a text and I told her....and she told me I am not her girlfriend anymore. She is still trying to break up with me and says that she is tired of this, that she doesn't care about what I say because she's had enough and that she will find someone who gives her her space and is proud of her and that she doesn't settle for little, and I don't either but I am WAY more patient than she is, because I do want a long relationship with her, I madly love her but I sometimes fail miserably....like now. She insists that I'm ashamed of her even though I told her that it took me so long because I was scared of their reaction but she places the entire problem on her and says she hopes she can meet someone that values her (because I don't according to her), and that isn't ashamed of her and she said she knew many people would be proud to introduce her to their family. I work my ass off for this relationship, I really do but I feel like I am at disadvantge because of this family thing. And it frustrates me too damn much when she tells me I don't like her or love her because she has this crazy mood swings in which we are ok, totally lovely....and then she tells me we are just friends and all that. I just needed to get that out and to know your opinion on this. I'm not ashamed of her, I was just scared of my family's reaction and specially because they are just too many and because I grew apart from my family and we stopped talking so I really wasn't in touch with anyone. To those who reached the end, thank you for reading and to anyone who comments, thanks for taking your time to help me.