Hey folks, I am new here and so just want to start off by saying that I found this forum when I was seeking a place to discuss questions regarding some confusion I am facing regarding what attraction is and basically my sexual orientation. If this is the wrong site to be asking support for sexual orientation related questions then my sincere apologies, I just has no where else I could go as I posted on other forums and I've been met with silence which I assume is because people are busy or maybe they don't have anything to add in regards to my question. If anyone is able to help me out here, I just want to say thank you in advance as I am feeling very alone in this all. I am a woman (26 years old) who is a virgin by choice and have never been in a relationship. I identify as hetro-romantic because I can feel romantic attraction towards men and feel no such romantic attraction towards women. I am not sure if I could form a sexual attraction to a guy as I know I can develop a romantic desire but I definitely know that I feel no sexual attraction towards women as I dont even feel a romantic desire and I am probably asexual so definitely dont feel any sexual desire outside of some fantasies. So what is the confusion? A few times in the past I have had active (meaning I was awake and it was intentional) romantic fantasies of being with celebrity women (actress and an athlete-fantasized about them in two separate occasions) and imagined being in a dating relationship (living together, kissing etc) and yet as soon as the fantasy was done I couldnt help but laugh at it because I have no attraction towards these women in real life (i.e. when I see them on TV I dont not feel any attraction) but in the past I did watch lesbian movies and maybe it got me curious at to what it would be like. I was turned on by the romantic fantasy but for whatever reason it doesnt crossover to any real life desire. My question is: does being attracted to them in the fantasies I had in the past mean that I am attracted to them? I know in real life that I am not attracted to them at all but because of the attraction that I felt only in the past fantasy that I had its left me very confused. FYI, these fantasies were in the past only and I have no desire or attraction to these female celebs in fantasies now at all. I should add that due to this confusion regarding past behavior I did end up analyzing if I liked any women in real life for a whole year believe it or not lol and no matter how hard I tried I felt zero romantic or sexual feelings for any women I meet or even get along with. I have nothing but love and peace towards the LGBT community and so accepting same sex feelings if they were present would not be a problem for me. I also have a history of anxiety, over analyzing so that may explain why I am focusing so hard on this but generally its because I am confused if fantasy attraction that doesnt crossover to real life attraction is really attraction?