I posted this long thread a while back. You don't have to go through it all (3 pages I believe) to get an idea of the relationship...I believe most here read it anyway. http://forums.afterellen.com/thread...er-into-me-at-all-seems-to-be-flirting.10085/ We're still friends at work. She hasn't been saying anything really sexual and has actually mentioned a couple times finding me a man. She probably realizes she still loves her man or maybe considered that I might be into women and that she shouldn't go so far (haven't told her I'm bi though wouldn't have trouble with her knowing)...I notice that she is very touchy with other female friends as well. She'll call friends, and me, babe/baby etc and just seems very comfortable with her sexuality though I've never asked if she's actually attracted to women. She'll slap your ass, etc. Anyways, she's been wanting to hang out. I went out with several others and her recently but it was only about an hour and she and I didn't spend a lot of it together. She's told me that her man has a boat and a couple jet skis and she's asked a few different times when I'm gonna go out with them on the lake. I imagine when she says "them" she's referring to her boyfriend and their daughter....Her man has come in a couple times and I try to avoid going near them. It's awkward to me. I am attracted to her. I don't know exactly what I'm feeling. I'm not feeling lovesick or romantic as I have in the past with others...A friend texted me recently that this girl "just LOVES" me and another time said she "likes me A LOT" (both times in caps). It makes my day hearing this about this girl. As a result, I began thinking about her a lot yesterday. I like when she touches me. I want to be around her and do want to hang out with her. But I don't want to join in on a family day with her man and her daughter. It would certainly just feel awkward to me. Our dialogue has always been joking or flirting....that would have to change in this setting.This started with me once asking if it's possible to rent boats in her area for the day (she lives near the water) so I can't say I'm suddenly not interested in boating....I don't want to be introduced to her man, don't want to have to talk to him and don't really want to see them cuddling and kissing as the sun sets over the water on us all. I've thought to come up with some other activity with a couple others from work...but regardless, if I want to be friends with her, can't keep hiding from her family... I know this wasn't a clear question. I'm just a bit confused myself. Just need advice about this relationship.