Can't seem to meet any women! Help :)

Discussion in 'Advice on Meeting Women' started by cheval_amant, Nov 14, 2013.

  1. cheval_amant

    cheval_amant Member

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    Hey ladies!

    I know the struggle is not just mine but being single gets depressing sometimes. I'm in the 22yr old (and only a couple of quick relationships with women) to speak of category. I really want to meet some other lesbians even if it's just as friends to start.

    I've tried the online thing and these "dates" were either flakey or a just friends.

    And as far as giving off gay vibes I think I fall between the fem/sporty look although I love looking tomboy-ish.
    Sometimes I look gayer sometimes I look straight.
    Any advice on meeting like minded awesome women?!
    I love sports, art and horses...and am a book nerd.

    Another fact is I live in Portland OR, a lot of queers are out and about. I just seem to only meet the hipster type lesbians and I'm just not attracted to them/we have nothing in common. I'm not being judgmental here I'm just a clean cut sporty woman and we don't seem to ever mesh. And I like women who are also of a similar type to me.

    Thanks for reading !
     
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  2. MizzLadyPants

    MizzLadyPants Well-Known Member

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    Sounds like me lol. Can't say I really have any advice though. I have terrible luck with women, if they are interested I'm not. And if I'm interested I dunno how to even go about it.

    There's actually a couple of girls @ my college that are totally my type... short pixie cut... but femme and classy.

    Honestly my biggest problem is that women intimidate me to no end!
     
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  3. zmbsrxq

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    Hi there, great to find a local lady! I'm in Vancouver just north of you. Not sure if you're still around three years later, but if you are maybe we can find a book club to join together. =)
     
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